Hi Brandon,

Thank you for having the confidence to ask your question. Most guys don't have the guts to ask a question like yours, and it shows you're open to a new experience and widening your horizons in the area of how women's minds work when it comes to romantic relationships.

It's great that you waited seven days to call Brianna. You were right on schedule. But let me ask you a question: if this girl had high Interest Level in you, would she ever have broken that first date? Then, Brandon, ask yourself this question: is there one guy in the world she wouldn't have done that to? George Clooney, maybe? Or Orlando Bloom? The answer to that question is what the male ego can't handle.

Now let me make sure I understand you right. Brianna tells you she's breaking your date, and what do you do? Like my Uncle Jethro Love says, "You hand her a new whip so she can beat you some more!" You know to never do group dates, but you actually asked her out on top of a broken date? You're not supposed to ask her out EVER AGAIN after a babe pulls that on you, and guy, you couldn't wait!

That said, at least you're on the right path with "The System." Remember to place it by your bed, and read it every night for 10 minutes for the rest of your life. Any less than that, and you're going to be making more boo-boos.

Then Brianna tells you, "I'll call you back." And you believed her. Oh, Lord, Brandon. There isn't a woman on the planet who hasn't trotted out that whopper at one time or another. Like my oddsmaker pal in Vegas says, "I'll give you million to one it ain't gonna happen!"

After you insisted on humiliating yourself and calling her again, she "hesitated." That's a very telling word. Do women who would take a bullet for the husbands they're madly in love with ever hesitate? When a female prison guard springs some bad-ass dude who sweet-talked her, does she hesitate slipping him a weapon?

What you should have asked Brianna was "So what's a good day for you?" To you Psych majors, then she's got no wiggle room. You would have heard her go "duh…uh…uh…uh…uh…." Because you staggered her, just like Floyd Mayweather with a left hook. But you'll get craftier the more you study my book.

Brandon, you don't argue with yourself over whether or not to call this girl. You throw her number away -- period. When she said, "we should reschedule," she's just working your weak, deprived ego. Like my cousin Fast Eddie Love says, "She does it to all the guys she toys with."

"We should reschedule" is just a generality. Girls with low Interest Level toss out generalities that don't mean anything. Girls with high Interest Level get specific: "No, but I can make it Sunday at six!"

So you wanted to give it one last try, huh? Let me ask you another question: how many lottery tickets did you buy last week? You called her again and left a message? What did I tell you guys about phones? You fellas just don't get it. You want to rush in and make it worse by begging. By getting on your knees and crawling like a pathetic worm.

All this girl has to do is pick up the phone and she's got you. But she can't do it. Why? Because her Interest Level is below the Mason-Dixon Line. So stop trying to think up excuses for her and quit trying to help her, for Pete's sake. Look at it this way. Let's say the girl's Interest Level is 55% before you dial her digits. By actually calling her you just pushed it down to 49%!

Brandon, have you noticed that every time you ask this girl out, there's some kind of catastrophe? First there's a friend coming in from the East. The next time you called she couldn't go out because when she heard your voice she wanted to throw up. (That's how come she was ill.) When are you going to take the hint?

When Brianna finally consented to go out with you, how many times did she touch your arm? Big, big mistake, not trying to kiss her. When you don't know a babe's Interest Level, you have to go for it. You have to push the issue. Like my cousin Sal "The Fish" Love says, "You want her to turn her head so you don't have to waste your time on her anymore."

But with everything that's happened so far, you're not talking about her Interest Level. What you want to know is this: what's her Interest Level based on her actions?

Here's what I think of your situation. Brianna's giving you mixed signals because she has low Interest Level. Wait for her to call you and ask you out. Meanwhile, hustle other women. Her Interest Level is around 40%. You're just fill-in material, Brandon. She's thinking to herself, "Oh! Thursday's open….Let me call that stooge I can break dates with - he doesn't mind!"

Like my cousin General Love says, "That's the way the enemy thinks - and that's when she's in a sweet, caring mood!"

Remember, guys: when they screw around with your head, don't rationalize, please.