We all know its better to be honest with the person or even the people you’re dating. After all, you’d expect the same treatment and let’s face it, no one likes being lied to. But exactly how honest should you be? Is there a time when you can be too honest? Exactly how cold and how hard should you be when telling the truth?Let’s assume here that all of us are going to be perfectly honest with the people we date. We want to open up, share our lives, interests, thoughts, etc. And of course, we want the guy or woman in question to do the same. This is all well and good. Things start getting a little tricky when it comes to opinions. Again, there’s really no sense in lying but what if you really think along very contradicting lines? What if, and this is more pertinent to the guys, she asks you what you think of her outfit and you hate it? Wat if one of you loves cats/dogs/fish/ferrets/iguanas and the other freaks out at the sight of them? Not all is lost. There are some nifty little ways to maneuver your way around these conversation killers. Okay, let’s be honest and call them what they are: white lies. Otherwise known too diplomats everywhere as tact and diplomacy. And while it does take some practicing to pull off convincingly, its not as hard as you’d think. Here are some scenarios and the little diffusers which you can try. Read more! more…

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Originally Posted on 9/20/2005 6:17:18 PM
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