Some men believe that in order to look strong, it means they have to pick on other, smaller guys. This is a huge turn off to women. You want to be strong and positive, not a big oaf she has to constantly pull away from a fight when you’re out.
She wants you to be a gentleman. Use those strong arms to open doors and pull her seat out for her. Lend her a hand if she’s stepping out of a car or walking up a platform – this puts your forearms on display for a good cause.
If she has friends or family who need help with “honey do” tasks, like moving furniture, or hanging something on the wall, offer to help out in that area. Even though she’ll genuinely appreciate you helping, she’ll also be checking you out when you’re working hard.
Seeing a man do physical labor is a turn on for many women. They like to watch guys put their strength on display in the right way. It makes her feel protected and safe.
Women may not be verbal about checking you out – like how men whistle and make comments – but don’t think she’s not checking out your butt when you bend over the lift something, or drooling over your six pack abs when you have to take off your shirt because you’re getting too hot and sweaty.