There are techniques that every man has to learn when it comes to dealing with women. Unless of course, these men don’t mind being thought of as a wuss. You know where most men go wrong when they’re first working on getting a woman to go to bed with them?
They believe that she’s the one with all the power. They think that it’s up to her to decide if the men are good enough for her. That’s a bad idea right from the start and here’s why.
When you believe a woman has all the power, that means that she can take it or leave it. The “it,” in this situation means you. She can take or leave you because she’s the one with the power.
She’s the deciding factor. When a woman’s the one with all the power, you find yourself busting your butt to try to please her. Because deep down, you really do feel that she’s above you or too good for you and you worry that maybe she’s going to end up leaving you one day.
Men who live under this mistaken belief that women have all the power do it because they set themselves up. They did it to themselves. From the very beginning when they first set eyes on that woman and realized that they wanted her, they started working hard to impress her.
When you bust your butt to get a woman to want you and you work to get her to be impressed, you just handed over the reins of the relationship right there. When you do that, you’ve set the stage for how that relationship is going to play out for the duration of the time that you’re with that woman.
What you want is to be the one with the power. You want to be the man that makes her want you so badly that she’s the one coming on to you. She’s the one working her butt off to impress you.
She’s coming up to you at the bar or wherever you are and she’s the one that’s trying to talk you into having sex instead of the other way around. A man with the power in a relationship gets to decide who he sleeps with – and when – because there’s always another woman waiting to take the place of the girl he’s currently banging.