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Why Don’t Women Get off on Sheer Muscle Mass?

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Muscles are great – toned, fit and trim isn’t something women complain about. But it starts to become a problem when your muscles get out of control. Women dislike huge veins popping out of your body. This might be something you think is really cool in the gym as you’re lifting, but to a woman, it’s just gross. Some men look so massive they look like they’re about to explode. Have you ever seen a cartoon character suddenly puff up … Continue reading →

If You Lack Confidence, Your Muscles Won’t Do You Any Good

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You can be as big as a house and no amount of muscle is going to make you attractive to a woman if you lack the one thing that draws her to you – confidence. There’s a reason why skinny, average guys can get the ladies – and it has nothing to do with money. It has to do with the way he carries himself and how he projects confidence to those around him. Look at Johnny Depp. He’s not … Continue reading →

Watch How Judgmental You Are

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If you’re constantly talking about your body – its perfections and imperfections – it’s going to intimidate women about their own bodies. They’ll know for a fact that you’re picky about every little thing, so she won’t want to get undressed in front of you for fear that you’ll be sizing her up, too. If you’re always impressing yourself with your gains and losses and new weights, then she’s going to feel invisible to you. You need to take the … Continue reading →

Make Sure You’re Not Becoming a Muscle Head

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Don’t become so obsessed with your workout routines that you spend all of your waking hours in the gym. No woman wants to date a muscle head who doesn’t know how to do anything else in life. She might not mind hearing about your supplements once, but if that’s all your conversation consists of, you’re going to have a hard time keeping her interested. She doesn’t care which Creatine you’re using or which flavor of protein powder you like best. … Continue reading →

Do Things That Bring Attention to Your Strength

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Some men believe that in order to look strong, it means they have to pick on other, smaller guys. This is a huge turn off to women. You want to be strong and positive, not a big oaf she has to constantly pull away from a fight when you’re out. She wants you to be a gentleman. Use those strong arms to open doors and pull her seat out for her. Lend her a hand if she’s stepping out of … Continue reading →

What Do Women Value?

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Different women value different things, but all good women have certain things in common that they value in a man. Looks are important, but may not be as important as you think. Bad boys invariably seem good-looking. And while that’s nice, most women prefer a man with intelligence and a certain amount of sensitivity and attentiveness (don’t confuse attentiveness with possessiveness – they’re two different things, and one is not good). A great personality is more attractive than great looks. … Continue reading →

Sheer Muscle Mass Won’t Help You Attract Women

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If you’re a single guy and you’re looking to meet women, you have to think of this as a whole life makeover – not just lifting a few weights to beef up your body a bit. Muscles and a toned physique are very important, don’t get me wrong. It’s just that they’re not the only thing that matters. You have to pair your excellent body building efforts with other things to make your single status disappear for good. When It … Continue reading →

How to Compliment a Woman with Sincerity

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Everyone loves compliments, and well-placed compliments play a very important role in attracting and dating a woman (they’re also very important once you’ve snagged her). Let’s take a look at the best way to give compliments without being overbearing and scaring her away. Assuming that you’re just getting to know the woman you want to compliment, or you’ve just barely met her and you want to strike up a conversation, you need to come up with a compliment that’s sincere. … Continue reading →

Should I Date My Buddy’s Ex-Girlfriend?

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Hi Doc Love, I just got The “System” in the mail over the weekend. I’ve read a little of it and it all makes perfect sense and I want to say thanks. Anyway, I’m sure you’ve heard my situation before, so hopefully you have some good advice. Here it is: My best friend got dumped by his girlfriend a couple of weeks ago and he was (and still is) crushed. I met this girl a year ago (through my buddy), … Continue reading →

Who’s The Woman You Want?

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Just as no woman wants a man who isn’t in control of his life, you don’t need a woman whose life is a disaster. If she has bad habits, addictions, or a history of decisions that turn out to make her life worse, pass her by. You might like to feel needed, but you don’t need to be necessary for her survival in the everyday world. If she isn’t capable of taking care of herself, you don’t need to rescue … Continue reading →