Finding the right women to date is going to take some effort on your part. Unless you’re unusually lucky, the chances of Mrs. Right showing up at your door are pretty slim. On the other hand, the chance of you finding Mrs. Right if you’re out there looking (without looking desperate), and making yourself available, are pretty good!
The trick is to be visible and involved. Without visiting a different bar every night, you can make yourself visible and you can do some hunting. If you’re sitting home sulking because you don’t have a date, you’re not going to get one.
You need to find things that interest you, places that you like to go (alone or with a friend or two), and things you want to try. Make a list and start doing. Some of the ways to jump-start your “bump into the right woman” campaign are:
• Joining clubs that are in line with your hobbies and interests
• Taking classes
• Joining professional associations
• Joining spiritual groups
• Getting involved in political campaigns
• Getting involved in causes that you believe in
These are all great ways to meet interesting women who you have lots in common with. And if you’re doing things that are important to you, you’ll know that you and she share some of the same values.
You may need to step out of your comfort zone a little, but it’s worth it. If you’re normally a bit shy or hesitant about getting involved in such things, take a friend with you.
A bit of discomfort is a small price to pay for meeting new people, one or more of who could be your next date. If you think you have nothing to offer, sit down and make a list of what you do have going for you.
Having that knowledge will come in handy when you’re figuring out what groups to join and what interesting new things you’d like to try in your endeavors to meet the right woman.
Bumping into the right kind of women to date isn’t something that just happens. Well, maybe once in awhile, but it’s not the only way. You have to go and look for women that you’re interested in dating.
You can make a chance meeting seem just like that if you take some time to think of where you might find the right kind of women to date. With some planning, you will soon be meeting friends and lining up new dates.