Category Archives: Dating Advice

How to Know If You Have Chemistry With a Woman

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You’ve met someone you really like. You have common interests and you’re physically attracted to her. She’s nice, smart, has a decent job and seems to have herself together. What more could you ask? Or rather, what more should you ask? You should ask yourself if you have chemistry with this woman. Why? Because without chemistry, you’ll end up wanting her for a friend, not a life partner. What is chemistry anyway? It’s not an overused phrase, that’s for sure … Continue reading →

What Do Women Value?

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Different women value different things, but all good women have certain things in common that they value in a man. Looks are important, but may not be as important as you think. Bad boys invariably seem good-looking. And while that’s nice, most women prefer a man with intelligence and a certain amount of sensitivity and attentiveness (don’t confuse attentiveness with possessiveness – they’re two different things, and one is not good). A great personality is more attractive than great looks. … Continue reading →

Dating for Women After Divorce

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You’re single again – congratulations! You might not hear that from most people. Most will give you a sorrowful look and then say, “I’m so sorry.” But whether you decided to move forward with a divorce, or your ex-husband did – one thing we know for sure – it wasn’t the right match. Now you’re free to find your one true, real soul mate in life.  Or – maybe you don’t even want anything that serious. Maybe you’ve decided you … Continue reading →

Dating at Work and with Coworkers

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The best place to meet women is somewhere you go every day anyway. So what fits that description more than your job? You may already be attracted to a woman at work, but you might not feel completely confident about asking her out. Making a work relationship personal has its own pros, cons, and issues. Here are a few: Pros: You’re already there, you work with women, you already know who they are and have an excuse to talk to … Continue reading →

Sheer Muscle Mass Won’t Help You Attract Women

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If you’re a single guy and you’re looking to meet women, you have to think of this as a whole life makeover – not just lifting a few weights to beef up your body a bit. Muscles and a toned physique are very important, don’t get me wrong. It’s just that they’re not the only thing that matters. You have to pair your excellent body building efforts with other things to make your single status disappear for good. When It … Continue reading →

A first date that women go CRAZY for.

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Today, I’m going to show you one of the biggest mistakes you can make when asking a woman out, and how to avoid it. But first… Without thinking, what’s the most stereotypical way to ask someone out? For most people, it’s going to be something to the effect of: “Would you like to go to dinner sometime?” It could be dinner, it could be grabbing coffee, anything like that. It’s a standard first date. It’s reserved, it’s traditional, and it … Continue reading →

Who Pays in Today’s World of Dating?

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Equal pay for equal work is a great idea in the workplace. Do you also believe in equal pay for equal good times on the dating scene? It’s a question that bothers many women. Do you offer to pay for your own dinner or movie ticket? If you do pay, is it really a “date” in the traditional sense – or just hanging out like you do with friends? When a man invites a woman for a date, he usually … Continue reading →

How to Compliment a Woman with Sincerity

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Everyone loves compliments, and well-placed compliments play a very important role in attracting and dating a woman (they’re also very important once you’ve snagged her). Let’s take a look at the best way to give compliments without being overbearing and scaring her away. Assuming that you’re just getting to know the woman you want to compliment, or you’ve just barely met her and you want to strike up a conversation, you need to come up with a compliment that’s sincere. … Continue reading →

Should I Date My Buddy’s Ex-Girlfriend?

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Hi Doc Love, I just got The “System” in the mail over the weekend. I’ve read a little of it and it all makes perfect sense and I want to say thanks. Anyway, I’m sure you’ve heard my situation before, so hopefully you have some good advice. Here it is: My best friend got dumped by his girlfriend a couple of weeks ago and he was (and still is) crushed. I met this girl a year ago (through my buddy), … Continue reading →

Who’s The Woman You Want?

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Just as no woman wants a man who isn’t in control of his life, you don’t need a woman whose life is a disaster. If she has bad habits, addictions, or a history of decisions that turn out to make her life worse, pass her by. You might like to feel needed, but you don’t need to be necessary for her survival in the everyday world. If she isn’t capable of taking care of herself, you don’t need to rescue … Continue reading →