Category Archives: Dating Advice

Just Who’s High Maintenance Around Here?

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Divas can be fun to watch but difficult to date. Regardless of how hot high maintenance women look, for men, dealing with them is not worth the pain they cause. So what is the difference between being very picky about what’s around you and being impossibly high maintenance? This questionable quality looks slightly different in men than in women. High maintenance women are perfectly beautiful, stylish and almost too good to be real. The problem is, they’re like cartoon character … Continue reading →

Watch How Judgmental You Are

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If you’re constantly talking about your body – its perfections and imperfections – it’s going to intimidate women about their own bodies. They’ll know for a fact that you’re picky about every little thing, so she won’t want to get undressed in front of you for fear that you’ll be sizing her up, too. If you’re always impressing yourself with your gains and losses and new weights, then she’s going to feel invisible to you. You need to take the … Continue reading →

Have You Been Bar Hopping to Meet Men?

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There are a lot of men at bars. During the “Ladies Hour,” when women drink free, men flock to the bars. They know that there will be women and free flowing booze, which for them is the perfect match. Cheap booze and easy women or easy booze and cheap women, they don’t care. These men are there for one reason – to find a woman whose alcohol consumption is up and her defenses down. Bars are fine for meeting people … Continue reading →

Get them excited on the First Date

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When you have been talking to someone online for a time you both may decide to take the next step with a real life date. Online dating can be very beneficial but without a good connection in real life, you cannot move onto something more with long lasting potential. Many people are concerned about moving from online dating to dating in real life. It can be very dangerous. Online daters also need to worry about the other person not being … Continue reading →

Make Sure You’re Not Becoming a Muscle Head

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Don’t become so obsessed with your workout routines that you spend all of your waking hours in the gym. No woman wants to date a muscle head who doesn’t know how to do anything else in life. She might not mind hearing about your supplements once, but if that’s all your conversation consists of, you’re going to have a hard time keeping her interested. She doesn’t care which Creatine you’re using or which flavor of protein powder you like best. … Continue reading →

Flirting

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There are plenty of ways to get women’s attention, but not all of them are good. Sometimes guys can come across as crazy or creepy when all they wanted was to get noticed. Some men tend to show off, others are too intimate too early, and others are way too obviously desperate. Flirting is the art of catching a woman’s attention in a positive way. There’s no reason to do anything crazy to get a woman’s attention if you know … Continue reading →

Do Things That Bring Attention to Your Strength

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Some men believe that in order to look strong, it means they have to pick on other, smaller guys. This is a huge turn off to women. You want to be strong and positive, not a big oaf she has to constantly pull away from a fight when you’re out. She wants you to be a gentleman. Use those strong arms to open doors and pull her seat out for her. Lend her a hand if she’s stepping out of … Continue reading →

How to Know If You Have Chemistry With a Woman

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You’ve met someone you really like. You have common interests and you’re physically attracted to her. She’s nice, smart, has a decent job and seems to have herself together. What more could you ask? Or rather, what more should you ask? You should ask yourself if you have chemistry with this woman. Why? Because without chemistry, you’ll end up wanting her for a friend, not a life partner. What is chemistry anyway? It’s not an overused phrase, that’s for sure … Continue reading →

What Do Women Value?

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Different women value different things, but all good women have certain things in common that they value in a man. Looks are important, but may not be as important as you think. Bad boys invariably seem good-looking. And while that’s nice, most women prefer a man with intelligence and a certain amount of sensitivity and attentiveness (don’t confuse attentiveness with possessiveness – they’re two different things, and one is not good). A great personality is more attractive than great looks. … Continue reading →

Genuine Happiness Comes from Within

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Life isn’t the sweetest candy. Sometimes, when I feel like the world is just too heavy, I look around and find people who continue to live fascinating and wonderful lives. And then thoughts come popping into my mind like bubbles from nowhere – “How did their life become so adorably sweet? How come they still can manage to laugh and play around despite a busy stressful life?” Then I pause and observed for awhile… I figured out that maybe, they … Continue reading →