Women want a man who can love her. But unfortunately, some guys get the impression that she needs you to slather her in love almost the very second you meet her. Slow down, Romeo!

A man who grows a strong bond with a woman over time is attractive. A man who tells a woman he loves her after the second date is creepy.

And maybe you are planning to grow into a loving relationship with a woman, but you’ve spent so much time perfecting confidence and navigating her tests, that you don’t feel comfortable knowing when to let your guard down and become vulnerable.

The Tao of Badass is a guide for men that teaches you this strategy. Joshua Pellicer create a course with a membership area that helps men be a woman’s knight in shining armor, while staying true to themselves and being able to enjoy the experience of falling in love.

It’s not the same for a guy – and it’s not as easy, either. For a man, love involves attraction, affection and sexual desire. That’s not to say a man doesn’t experience deep emotions for the woman in his life. And it doesn’t mean women don’t need the same things – they’re just prioritized differently sometimes.

Love, for a man, is something that he should be in the driver’s seat with. A man can control the atmosphere of love and make it happen when he wants it to.

Not all men have the same need (if he’s dominant) or desire for the romantic notions associated with love. However, since a woman does – and you want her, you’re going to have to give that to her in order to bring about what you want in the relationship, whether it’s hot steamy sex or a romantic night on the town.

Love is a connection between a man and a woman that involves feelings. But there has to be the connection, the starting point before there can be the feelings.

Creating that connection involves paying attention to her. The Tao of Badass teaches you to watch for opportunities that help the relationship evolve into more than just a date or a hookup.

Josh teaches you about how to converse with her in a way that lets her feel special – like you’ve really invested yourself in what she has to say. It helps build the emotional connection she needs – even if you don’t need the same thing.

Being vulnerable isn’t something you do when you first approach a woman. It has to be done at the right time and in the right way – so that it isn’t seen as a sign of weakness, but as a sign of trust and deep loyalty instead.

Building that connection in order to create love takes some skill. That’s how Tao of Badass will come in handy for you. With the tested steps in the book, you can follow the master plan to build a strong connection and create a deep, satisfying love with any woman.