There’s a reason why you’re not getting the kind of sexual action that you want and deserve to get from girls. What you don’t know is that all girls can become a notch on your belt buckle if you know what you’re doing.
Even the girls that you think are hard to get can be had with the right techniques.
You start by looking at what causes her to want you.
A Woman’s Triggers
So-called dating experts have fed you a line for years. They’d like you to believe that they have some kind of inside track on how women operate. The kind of advice that they give you stems along the lines of telling you that you need to watch for certain clues from a woman.
They tell you that these clues will let you know if a woman’s interested in you or not. But what these experts don’t tell you is what you need to do if the woman is not interested and therefore, not giving off any clues at all.
You’re just sort of left to your own devices. What really sucks about that is when that hot girl you really want isn’t giving off these clues except the one that says she doesn’t seem to want you the way that you want her.
All of those experts can’t help you make a “no” response a “yes” response because the truth is that they don’t know how, either. And so what happens next is a shame.
Most men, when faced with a woman who gives them the “not interested” vibe – is that they walk away. They fail to close the deal, feel bad about themselves, call it a night and they go home alone, frustrated and unfulfilled.
That’s not the kind of sexual life you want and quite frankly, it’s not one that you have to put up with. Not when there are techniques available that can change all of that for every man who wants it.
To get the women that you want as often as you want, your first step is to forget all that crap you might have picked up from dating experts or relationship gurus that clearly haven’t worked for you.
If you keep at the same thing, you get the same results, so just stop what’s not working and go after what does. Here’s something that you might not have realized yet about women – and this fact is one of the keys to getting what you want.
Women everywhere in the entire world have two kinds of triggers. These triggers can be tripped to get her to sleep with you. These two triggers are her emotional and her psychological triggers.
These are very important because these triggers are the key that will get her to open her legs and let you in where you want to be. But, you have to know how to trip these triggers to get what you want.
If you don’t know the technique, then for you, the trigger stays untripped and you stay frustrated. Now this part might sound bad, but it’s the truth. If you want to have all the sex that you deserve from whichever woman you want, you have to know the techniques that are used to play the mind games.
This doesn’t mean that you need to act in a way that makes women see you as a jerk. It’s not about being a jerk. It’s about beating those psychological and emotional triggers, which can be a road block for you if you don’t get them out of the way.
These mind games help you move them out of your way. What these mind games are referring to is you knowing how to understand the way that a woman’s psychological trigger must be approached.
If you don’t approach a woman’s trigger the right way, you get shut down after talking to her for just a few seconds. Half the time, a guy doesn’t even know what went wrong – only that something did.
But if you use the right techniques that help you with a woman’s triggers, not only can you make a woman want to sleep with you, but you can also get her to fall for you emotionally and a woman that cares is more apt to put out.
Talking and Flirting with Women Gets Them Into Your Bed
We’ve all seen an example of the smooth operator who can bang any girl he wants. He’s got them all panting after him. Homely girls, hot girls – they all want him.
These kinds of guys seem to have been born with the ability of knowing exactly how to talk to women. They know what to say to have a never-ending line of girls to have sex with.
The rest of us are pretty inept when it comes to women. We don’t know the right way to talk to them or flirt with them much less get them to want to jump into bed with us.
Unlike the smooth operator, the average man struggles when it comes to socializing with women. The reason is because we work on different psychological levels.
A woman looks at a man and she’s wondering if he’ll be a good partner or a good father if they have any children. Meanwhile, he’s looking at her and wondering if he can get her into bed, how soon and if she’d be any good at it.
It’s just the way the sexes are wired, so it’s no wonder that there’s this communication divide that women complain about. We just operate on two separate levels.
Unfortunately, because we’re not given the ability to communicate effectively with women at birth, we lack the polish we need to have when it comes to interacting with women.
That’s bad – because it means we screw up, often right at the beginning of a conversation with a woman – and we nix our chances of getting laid. There are some common mistakes that guys make when talking to women.
You have to avoid these, but besides avoiding the mistakes, you have to know how to talk to them – and there is a technique for that. Men tend to talk fast, especially when they’re interested in a woman and they want to get her into bed.
It’s the hope and excitement that makes a guy tend to run off at the mouth. This is our sales approach and we talk fast because we’re trying to impress her. Talking fast backfires because what happens is the guy comes across as too overeager and the woman is thinking he’s too eager, so he must be anxious because he’s not getting any.
If he’s not getting any, it means other women don’t want it – which means there must be something wrong with him – that’s what’s going on in a woman’s mind when a man is talking too fast.
Another way that a guy screws up when talking to a woman is he focuses the conversation on himself. Again, he’s just trying to impress her so that he can get her into bed.
But the woman is thinking about what a self-centered, boring guy he is and she’s wondering how to make an excuse and slip away. You have to learn how to talk and flirt with women in a way that paves the way to get them into your bed. These ways are taught in systems like Unlock Her Legs – The Scrambler.
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Be the One in Control
For all of the feminist and women’s lib stuff out there, women still want a man who acts like a man and isn’t afraid to treat her like a woman. She doesn’t want some guy she can walk on.
She doesn’t want some guy who’ll act like a lap dog and will follow her every command. Too many men make the mistake of treating a woman like a sounding board.
These men want to feel better about whatever issue they have going on in their lives. So they spill their guts. They talk about their families, their jobs, their ex-girlfriends and all the ways that life has screwed them over.
These guys are seeking comfort, thinking that it will trigger a woman’s emotional care factor and make her care. Even to the point where she might sleep with him. You might think or maybe you were taught that women really want a man who isn’t afraid to open up and “share his feelings.”
But it doesn’t work, because before you know it, if you behave like this, you cross a line. You go from that mysterious guy she wants to sleep with to the guy that gets firmly put in the friend zone.
And friend, you’re not getting laid there.
So avoid the temptation to treat women like someone you can unload on. Save that for a therapist you don’t want to sleep with. Because women want a man that they don’t everything about.
In your relationship with a woman, especially during the phase before she sleeps with you, you have to be the one in control. You have to call every single one of the shots or what happens is you come across as whipped.
Why do you think it is that women like the bad boy characters? These men act like jerks, treat them like jerks and every woman in the world wants to sleep with one.
Because right or wrong with the stuff they do, these guys act like men who are in control. Being the one in control means knowing who has the power in the relationship.
This is a mistake that men make – and it’s a reason they don’t get laid as much as they want to. You must know that you’re the one with the power.