Common Problems with Surface Level Online Dating

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Online dating has many pros and cons when you compare it to conventional dating. While it can be more convenient and easier to meet people, talking over text can have a lot of issues that can make it hard to communicate well and move on into an actual relationship. One of the most common issues you might run into while dating online is catfishing. Catfishing refers to when someone’s profile and pictures aren’t the same as who they actually are. … Continue reading →

A first date that women go CRAZY for.

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Today, I’m going to show you one of the biggest mistakes you can make when asking a woman out, and how to avoid it. But first… Without thinking, what’s the most stereotypical way to ask someone out? For most people, it’s going to be something to the effect of: “Would you like to go to dinner sometime?” It could be dinner, it could be grabbing coffee, anything like that. It’s a standard first date. It’s reserved, it’s traditional, and it … Continue reading →

The Evolution of Online Dating Web Sites

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You know how hard it was to find your ideal boyfriend or ideal girlfriend before the advent of online dating web sites. You needed to go bar and club hopping to meet people whom they thought they can ask for a date the next evening. Teenagers and adults search their ideal dates and soul mates through setting-up blind dates, meeting other people through colleagues and friends, and other traditional means. You will really have to invest your hard-earned dollars on … Continue reading →

Who Pays in Today’s World of Dating?

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Equal pay for equal work is a great idea in the workplace. Do you also believe in equal pay for equal good times on the dating scene? It’s a question that bothers many women. Do you offer to pay for your own dinner or movie ticket? If you do pay, is it really a “date” in the traditional sense – or just hanging out like you do with friends? When a man invites a woman for a date, he usually … Continue reading →

Online Dating Tips for Women

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Women in search for a knight in shining armor in real life dating should not lower her standards while searching online. She should keep her dream of having a prince charming to the rescue. But having big dreams does not mean being too selective. Women should be selective but they should not limit their options exactly to their ideal man. Limiting your options will decrease the possibility of having a good catch. Create an interesting profile. This is one way … Continue reading →

How to Compliment a Woman with Sincerity

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Everyone loves compliments, and well-placed compliments play a very important role in attracting and dating a woman (they’re also very important once you’ve snagged her). Let’s take a look at the best way to give compliments without being overbearing and scaring her away. Assuming that you’re just getting to know the woman you want to compliment, or you’ve just barely met her and you want to strike up a conversation, you need to come up with a compliment that’s sincere. … Continue reading →

Don’t Sabotage Your Relationship

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You’re in a relationship with a great woman, but you’ve had bad experiences before and you’re sort of waiting for it all fall apart, just like in the past. Before you go any further, you need to get rid of that self-defeating attitude and change your mindset before you sabotage your relationship. Or, maybe you’re a bit disgruntled because you haven’t found your perfect soulmate. Good luck with finding anything perfect, because that’s a tall order. You have to realize … Continue reading →

Have You Been Bar Hopping to Meet Men?

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There are a lot of men at bars. During the “Ladies Hour,” when women drink free, men flock to the bars. They know that there will be women and free flowing booze, which for them is the perfect match. Cheap booze and easy women or easy booze and cheap women, they don’t care. These men are there for one reason – to find a woman whose alcohol consumption is up and her defenses down. Bars are fine for meeting people … Continue reading →

Should I Date My Buddy’s Ex-Girlfriend?

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Hi Doc Love, I just got The “System” in the mail over the weekend. I’ve read a little of it and it all makes perfect sense and I want to say thanks. Anyway, I’m sure you’ve heard my situation before, so hopefully you have some good advice. Here it is: My best friend got dumped by his girlfriend a couple of weeks ago and he was (and still is) crushed. I met this girl a year ago (through my buddy), … Continue reading →

Who’s The Woman You Want?

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Just as no woman wants a man who isn’t in control of his life, you don’t need a woman whose life is a disaster. If she has bad habits, addictions, or a history of decisions that turn out to make her life worse, pass her by. You might like to feel needed, but you don’t need to be necessary for her survival in the everyday world. If she isn’t capable of taking care of herself, you don’t need to rescue … Continue reading →