How to Flirt Without Making a Fool of Yourself

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Flirting is both an art and a science. When done well, it’s fun and serves as a path to dating. Flirting is less about coming up with catchy lines and more about using words and body language paired with a sincere interest in the other person (the flirtee, if you will). With some practice, you’ll find that you can flirt without feeling embarrassed. Flirting is always playful and fun. It often has a vague sexual undertone, which is fine, but … Continue reading →

Breaking Through Your Barriers of Approaching Hot Women

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Do you doubt yourself so much about your ability to pick up women that you sabotage your efforts before you ever even approach one? This happens to many men – and it’s one primary issue Joshua Pellicer covers in The Tao of Badass. Josh says that while you’re worrying about your approach, women are worrying about their filters – making sure they keep the right guys out and let the right guys in. And he shows you how to become … Continue reading →

A Love Soul Mate

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When two soul mates find each other and reconnect “in love” there is a chemistry between the two that is beyond compare to other relationships. There is a also a spiritual bond that regular relationships don’t have. When you see someone and you are drawn to them like a magnet this is your spirit alerting you to the possibility that you are about to encounter a soul mate. The spiritual bond of soul mates who have a “ true love” … Continue reading →

Avoid Spending Your Money for a Broken Heart

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One thing that aggravates me most with some online dating sites is when I invest a lot of time getting to know someone only for them to eventually ask for money. These are fake profiles designed to tell you everything you want to hear and will never develop into a lasting friendship. Watch out when somebody won’t get on the phone or Zoom call with you. They are likely hiding their true identity. Now, there are some legitimate reasons to … Continue reading →

Know the Facts of Online Dating

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Online dating is very popular and if you would like to join this world, there are a few things that you should keep in mind. As with the other aspects of life, you will have more success if you follow the rules of the game and treat other people with respect. Some people may not realize these rules but in the end it will mean the difference between you getting the date and continuing to be single. If you find … Continue reading →

Why I No Longer Recommend Online Dating

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I have been writing about online dating for over seven years and have seen it grow into a multi-billion dollar industry.  In the early days it was infested with perverts and others with ill intent.  Then, there was a period where it cleaned up a bit and became a viable way to find a mate. In more recent years, it has again mostly become corrupted, not by perverts but by greedy basement entrepreneurs intent on stealing your money or causing … Continue reading →

Genuine Happiness Comes from Within

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Life isn’t the sweetest candy. Sometimes, when I feel like the world is just too heavy, I look around and find people who continue to live fascinating and wonderful lives. And then thoughts come popping into my mind like bubbles from nowhere – “How did their life become so adorably sweet? How come they still can manage to laugh and play around despite a busy stressful life?” Then I pause and observed for awhile… I figured out that maybe, they … Continue reading →

Kissed a Bunch of Frogs Lately?

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Is your local pond full of frogs? Do you kiss them hoping to get a handsome prince only to find slimy lips and nothing changes? You’re hanging around the wrong dating pool, and it’s time to make some changes. You’ve certainly heard the armchair definition of insanity – “doing the same thing over and over while expecting a different result.” Well dating insanity is, “dating the same kind of guys over and over while expecting them to become something that … Continue reading →

Nice Guys Need to Learn How to Untangle Mixed Signals

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You’ve been on a couple of dates with a girl you really like. You thought everything was going great, and suddenly she seems to have lost interest. What’s going on? In the midst of your disappointment, you need to find out what went wrong, keeping in mind that this might not even be your fault (although it might). You can start with some self-reflection and work through some of your own insecurities. Do you possess the qualities that women are … Continue reading →

Never Ask for Her Phone Number

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You’ve met a woman that you like, and it seems like she likes you, too. How are you going to keep in touch until it’s time to plan a date? The obvious way would be to ask for her phone number and/or email address so you can get in touch with her, but that may not be your best choice in every circumstance. Women aren’t always comfortable giving out that kind of information until they know a person pretty well. … Continue reading →